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Thanks for your question, Laurie

“Does the Universe give you ’signs’? If yes, what kind of things should we be looking for?

Or does the Universe just reflect back to you your inner self with ’signs’?”

Strictly speaking in my opinion, the Universe does not give you signs. The Universe is a reflection of you, and therefore EVERYTHING is a sign, a sign of your vibration.

What should you look for? Do you mean you would like to know what to look for to show that you are on the right path? Or are creating “properly”?

I suggest that you turn it around. You are the creator. Anything that happens to you, YOU created. You create any “signs” that come to you.

Now, having said that, some people have a system that works well for them. They know what certain “signs” mean to them, and they are confident with them. So go for it! It is your reality

For me PERSONALLY, I don’t feel I need signs. I know the Law of Attraction is absolute. I focus on something, or ask for something. Then it happens.

All the Best,
Alex

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Ryan asked another really good question,

“How long should I expect to get _______ (whatever I want)? How does the time dimension work into LOA”

How long you should expect to get whatever you want is… drumroll… however long you expect it to take.

The default time for things to take to manifest is zero time; this is the technically correct answer. (Think Jesus manifesting fish or loaves of bread, or changing water to wine: these things happened instantaneously) Then depending on your thoughts and (dis)beliefs you have the manifestation slows down, or just plain never happens.

The more you think of life as “real” the more your manifestations will stay close to the generally accepted “normal” time line. The more you think of life as a magical, dream-world reflection of yourself, then the more your manifestations happen very, very quickly or even instantaneously.

To elaborate further on this in more practical terms, the speed of your manifestation depends on these factors: how much you believe it will happen, how much you believe you are capable, how much you believe you are worthy, how much you believe other people’s opinions play a role in what you can achieve, how much time you assume it will take, how much time the thing you are asking for takes to happen (some things have built in time frames, but you can definitely shorten those time frames with positive expectation). You have to ask yourself what you REALLY believe: are you saying you believe one thing but then acting differently? Well then you don’t really believe it! So over time you work through that disbelief and as you do your situation changes!

Hope that helps

All the Best,
Alex

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A wonderful person out there in cyber-space whose name shall remain anonymous asked me if I could write a bit about losing weight. So here goes…

Ahhhh, the “W” word! The subject for this Question and Answer blog is weight loss. Or just ‘weight’ if that suits you. Already you can tell a lot by how you feel about those two words.

There is so much to say on this subject. Oh! Really it is such a deep and multi-faceted question which will bring out a lot of awesome insight from me. Thanks a ton for this wonderful question. So I am thankful that you asked me it. There are two main points I would like to address when considering the idea of weightloss, namely Self-Worth and Well-Being.

Why Do You Want To Lose Weight?”

The Self-Worth point asks you this: “why do you want to lose weight?” YOU HAVE TO BE VERY HONEST HERE. Many people want things like “being pretty”, “being buff”, “having a corvette”, “having a sexy chick”, “having a giant fancy house” out of an inherent feeling of unworthiness for what they really want. They want these things to — not feel like a loser. To put it bluntly Because if they understood the truth, they would rather say “I will stay overweight, and have a fine girlfriend, because I CHOOSE that reality.” People seem to believe that if they were just DIFFERENT then they could get what they really want. The Universe does not necessitate that. The Universe merely reflects back to you whatever you put out. If you put out, “I want a charming handsome man to love me.” That is what you get. If you put out, “I want a charming handsome man to love me but I feel like a loser and no one will love this fat ass.” Then what you get is either you figure out how to NOT be overweight anymore OR you don’t get a charming handsome man OR somehow the Universe slips that man in there for you but you resist him and screw everything up because you cannot receive what you want because you don’t believe you deserve it.

The solution to this is to somehow get yourself to realize that you are wonderful just as you are.

Why Aren’t You A Healthy And Beautiful Weight Right Now?

The Well-Being angle to the question asks you this: “why aren’t you a healthy and beautiful weight right now?” See, while the first question pointed at the potential that you really don’t love yourself, and thus don’t think you deserve what it is you really want (to be happy and to have the things you love being who you are right now… fat… skinny… nerdy… stupid… it could be anything really…) this point, the Well-Being point asks you what are you believing that let this situation occur and prevented the desired situation? So many women believe that staying beautiful is hard, it boggles the mind. It is actually as simple as believing that staying beautiful is natural and requires only that you be you.

Are You Ready To Change What You Believe About Weight?

If you want to lose weight, change what you believe about weight. CHOOSE to BE in your being a person who balanced weight comes natural too. Do not TRY and DO what you think you have to do to be healthy. TRYING and DOING may work for some time, but eventually the effort of doing something that goes against what you REALLY believe wears on you, you let it go and get overweight again. Or you get tired of having to DO all of these things just to stay a certain shape. Because trying is actually resistance. Life is naturally effortless. Trying does not feel good.

The great irony in this is that as you believe that you are NATURALLY beautiful, and possibly even take it a little further and advance the belief even deeper to: “I AM beautiful right now, and my body and soul are doing precisely what makes me most beautiful RIGHT NOW. I have always been beautiful, and now I am following my natural feel-good, and look I AM beautiful.” As you believe those things you will find you probably change habits naturally. But it is effortless.

Forget everything you think you know about why you are overweight. You are overweight because you accept it as a possible reality, or even a likely reality. All your life is a reflection of who you believe you ARE.

All the Best to You All!!
Alex

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I am starting up a Question and Answer series. Anyone who is interested in asking me questions for me to answer in my blog can send me a message by using this contact form. Just send me your first name, your email and your question. Be sure to mention that you are submitting a question for the Q & A series

The first one is from Suki, thanks Suki for existing Simply because you exist in my reality it must be a good thing

Suki asked,

HI Alex,
I feel like my tongue is in my shoe with this idea… but I am going to get it this time….

I have come to the belief that a matching vibration is not one of exact circumstances… but rather ,,,, the Loa matches to the emotion at the moment of connection.

An example would be … in feng shui there is an eighth location that is unlucky and could portend death . If my emotions are way down on the scale… and I am in that unlucky location which can portend death there is a match…

I think the fruit idea is a better example, perhaps easier understood… lets see… if I am vibrating an apple and the LOA provides an orange ..there is a match of fruit vibration….Is that correct …or do matches have to be exact thought to thought.

If I understand what you are saying the answer is that if you JUST want fruit, and also enjoy variety the Universe will reflect back into your life a variety of fruits, and you will love it! If you JUST want oranges the Universe will reflect back to you just oranges. The Universe can reflect back to you infinite combinations of preferences. For example, maybe you like JUST fruit on Tuesday and a blend of tasty fruits on all the other days. It is whatever you want it to be.

Suki, if you believe that vibrations don’t match (or that they don’t reflect back into your reality) EXACTLY, (what you mentioned in your question) then life will reflect that back to you. I have asked for many many very specific things and had them happen in almost a reenactment sort of way: very precise. (I’ll talk about these stories more in my stories blog series…)

The Short Answer: The Universe reflects back to you what you focus on whether it be specifics or generalities.

All the Best,
Alex

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