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How the Taoist Concept of Non-Resistance Relates to the Law of Attraction

Thursday, May 15th, 2008


The Sage achieves all things by doing nothing. As soon as one strives to achieve one has lost it all.

That is the Taoist concept of non-resistance: Wu Wei. Literally translated it means, “do not act.” Lao-Tzu, the founder of Taoism was famous for saying that one should be like water.

I have deepened my understanding of the Law of Attraction to where I understand exactly what this means, and I want to explain the wisdom of Lao-Tzu using the concepts of the Law of Attraction.

You see, when you feel the need to strive to achieve something as opposed to allowing it to happen naturally, or when you feel the twinges of hastiness, the anxiety of having not achieved what you want, or the nagging fear of reality, when you feel these things you are resisting life. In the process you are not feeling good of course, and what we learn from Law of Attraction is that your unstated belief would then be: “All is Definitely Not Well, and I Definitely Need to Fix It!” And as such life correspondingly will not be well unless you strive to fix it. And in the process of striving to fix it you will realize you will never fix it all, because your predominant belief actually will continue to reflect back to you brokenness and you will continue to rush around fixing it. You see like Lao-Tzu said, the moment you strive to accomplish things, you are lost. It is Universal Law!

So What Should You Do Instead? Non-Resistance.


Be natural. Be happy. Take inspired action. Let others be who they are and do what they do. Basically you know you are non-resisting when you feel good holistically and you feel relaxed and happy.

When you resist NOTHING in your life you are actually sending out an implied belief that All is Well, and to the degree that you resist nothing whatsoever, not even the tiniest thing, your reality will reflect back to you that every iota is actually perfect for you in every way.

See, it is my understanding that All is Well. By that I mean that you are supported 100%, based on what you expect and believe. The essence of everything you ever desire is flowing into your reality TO THE DEGREE THAT YOU ACCEPT IT. It might take you years to accept that you can have what you have wanted all your life, then when you accept that it can be yours it flows right in. Just by truly believing/knowing that All is Well, feeling good, relaxing and non-resisting you are setting in motion the precise and optimal unfolding of everything you love and more: often even if you aren’t aware of this process!

So I encourage you to accept all things as being a vehicle for good flowing to you. Practice non-resistance. Thank all situations in your life for the goodness inherent in every iota. Indeed, in this moment and in every moment every iota is Well, and every iota is benefiting and serving you. So accept it, relax and be happy, and as you do this you will experience more and more of the Well-Being which is natural.

All the Best,
Alex

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Story Time, Part 2: The Fortune Cookie

Monday, May 12th, 2008


Me and fortune cookies go way back. For years now my reality has been reflecting itself back to me in the form of message on little slips of paper from the Chinese restaurant.

A few weeks back me and my girlfriend were driving to go to a restaurant, and on the way we were discussing how our realities are an extension of us. I told her that I wanted to experience manifestations like Jesus’ and I was explaining how when Jesus had his basket with 2 fish in it, and then he put the lid back on and then took it off and there were thousands of fish that he had altered reality with his beliefs to make that happen.

Then I recounted a story I had heard a man tell on the internet about how years ago he and his wife were having a blissful time on their first vacation together. But it was about to be over. They calculated together on the beach just how much money they would need to continue the vacation. It was a lot. Hundreds. Following his inspired action he immediately thrust his hand deep into the sand and he found all the money he needed for his vacation right there!

So we were discussing this stuff. And I was asking to experience my own Jesus-like ability to alter time-space in powerful instantaneous ways. Around this time I was also talking a lot about how “I have a very good fortune cookie vibration”, they are always so accurate for me…

Two Fortune Cookies, One For Me And One For Her

We enjoyed our Asian meal and got our two fortune cookies. We laughed and enjoyed the messages that (of course) told us what we already knew because we created the messages by our own vibrations. Then I looked away for a second. My girlfriend says, “hey look! Theres a third one!” I knew right then that I had made that third fortune cookie appear out of nowhere. I know for a fact there were two, because I took them off the plastic thing the waiter gave us. They always give one for each person, no extras. I knew it was a direct manifestation of my asking. Just to see if somehow maybe the waiter gave us an extra or something, I looked around, and here’s the kicker: there were only two wrappers. You can’t get three fortune cookies with only two wrappers, unless of course you are magic, like me.

Anything Is Possible

For the skeptics, I say Ask and Allow! There’s no way in hell I can “prove” to you that this really happened, but I know it happened to me!

Hope you enjoyed my story,
All the Best,
Alex

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Q&A #3: What Is The Role Of Time In Manifestation?

Monday, May 12th, 2008

Ryan asked another really good question,

“How long should I expect to get _______ (whatever I want)? How does the time dimension work into LOA”

How long you should expect to get whatever you want is… drumroll… however long you expect it to take.

The default time for things to take to manifest is zero time; this is the technically correct answer. (Think Jesus manifesting fish or loaves of bread, or changing water to wine: these things happened instantaneously) Then depending on your thoughts and (dis)beliefs you have the manifestation slows down, or just plain never happens.

The more you think of life as “real” the more your manifestations will stay close to the generally accepted “normal” time line. The more you think of life as a magical, dream-world reflection of yourself, then the more your manifestations happen very, very quickly or even instantaneously.

To elaborate further on this in more practical terms, the speed of your manifestation depends on these factors: how much you believe it will happen, how much you believe you are capable, how much you believe you are worthy, how much you believe other people’s opinions play a role in what you can achieve, how much time you assume it will take, how much time the thing you are asking for takes to happen (some things have built in time frames, but you can definitely shorten those time frames with positive expectation). You have to ask yourself what you REALLY believe: are you saying you believe one thing but then acting differently? Well then you don’t really believe it! So over time you work through that disbelief and as you do your situation changes!

Hope that helps :-)

All the Best,
Alex

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The Role of Tools and Processes On Your Law Of Attraction Journey

Monday, May 12th, 2008

Life is a journey. A journey into the unknown really. As reality creators, those of us who consciously utilize the Law of Attraction have different tools at hand. Much has been written about these tools in various books. You can probably read about most of these processes and methods for focusing the creative power of your mind by searching on Google. Or on the blog carnival. (Don’t go do that! Keep reading, this is going to get good!)

Processes can be a very valuable way for people to get a handle on how their thoughts and choices alter the reality they live in. Very valuable! They help you see how how to connect the dots of manifestation: “oh yeah, see I visualized that happening, then I wrote it down on this page in my notebook and HOTDAMN! here it is happening in my actual life that is AWESOME! Wow!”

See processes are like training wheels. The true tool all along was you. Once you get the hang of it riding a bike is much more fun without the training wheels :-)

I do have a process I recommend, it is basically just The Process of Feeling Good and of doing what feels good. If laying in your bed letting wonderful visions come into your mind feels good do that. If writing down a few simple lines on a pad on your dresser feels good, then do that. If going out for a walk and basking in the feeling of Well-Being feels good do that.

No matter where you are or what you are doing you are creating.

Do You Make Up Processes As You Go?

You can actually make up any process you want and do it whenever it feels good to. For example you could simply decide that if you sit down on the curb while going for a walk, you can sit there and feel inside yourself, and just feel the well-being in your body. Feel how everything is working so well. This is a process of bridging the world of perception with creation. Are you perceiving your body working well? OR Are you creating it working well!? Perception is creation.

Anything you choose to perceive or believe is a process, really.

I hope you all enjoyed this twist on the idea of processes. I hope I took you deeper in understanding once again!

All the Best,
Alex

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The Only Thing You Have To Do Today Is…

Monday, May 12th, 2008

What do you have to do today?

Out of everything in the whole Universe, the ONLY thing you have to do today is:

Feel good.

Or to be more detailed:

Feel good: Now.
And the next Now.
And the next Now.
Repeat forever.

Why?

I. Everything that comes to me comes by way of vibrations. (Even if it appears to be some other way)

II. As I feel good, I am focusing on that which feels good and thinking thoughts which feel good. I am immediately harmonizing my vibration with the object(s) of my focus. Achieving either immediate vibrational harmonization or very quick vibrational transition.

III. As such, wonderful things constantly ARE my vibration. And my life is continually matching those vibrations. (Your life and your vibration are always a match!)

IV. For those of you wondering about action. Actions are a natural result of focusing on your joy and feeling good. By following your joy and doing that which feels best you are always on the best path for you. Always.

So tell everyone:

“I have something very important to do today.”

What’s that?:

“Feel good” :)

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The “There Is Nothing You Cannot Be, Do Or Have” Challenge, Part 1

Saturday, May 10th, 2008

This blog series is going to be so awesome! For the future it will also be known as simply “The Challenge.” (it’s shorter)

Today I woke up wanting something more. I wanted to Ask For and Allow something so big and gnarly, just to say I did it, and to enjoy the process of watching my reality morph into that thing. Many of you out there have already heard the term, “There is nothing you cannot be, do or have,” and I want to express this truth in a way that says: “ha look!”

I thought about doing things like finding dinosaur bones, or flying in an alien space ship. These would be fun things to manifest for sure, but honestly I am not sure the true desire is really there (and I think true desire may be needed here!) Then I thought about the man who traded a paper clip one trade at a time up to a $150,000 house. That would be pretty cool of a thing to do, because that feels more exciting to me. For now though I think I am going to leave it alone and let the best idea for “The Challenge” come to me.

I’ll keep you posted with further “The Challenge” blogs.

All the Best to You All,
Alex

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Q&A #2: Weight

Friday, May 9th, 2008

A wonderful person out there in cyber-space whose name shall remain anonymous asked me if I could write a bit about losing weight. So here goes…

Ahhhh, the “W” word! The subject for this Question and Answer blog is weight loss. Or just ‘weight’ if that suits you. Already you can tell a lot by how you feel about those two words.

There is so much to say on this subject. Oh! Really it is such a deep and multi-faceted question which will bring out a lot of awesome insight from me. Thanks a ton for this wonderful question. So I am thankful that you asked me it. There are two main points I would like to address when considering the idea of weightloss, namely Self-Worth and Well-Being.

Why Do You Want To Lose Weight?”

The Self-Worth point asks you this: “why do you want to lose weight?” YOU HAVE TO BE VERY HONEST HERE. Many people want things like “being pretty”, “being buff”, “having a corvette”, “having a sexy chick”, “having a giant fancy house” out of an inherent feeling of unworthiness for what they really want. They want these things to — not feel like a loser. To put it bluntly :-) Because if they understood the truth, they would rather say “I will stay overweight, and have a fine girlfriend, because I CHOOSE that reality.” People seem to believe that if they were just DIFFERENT then they could get what they really want. The Universe does not necessitate that. The Universe merely reflects back to you whatever you put out. If you put out, “I want a charming handsome man to love me.” That is what you get. If you put out, “I want a charming handsome man to love me but I feel like a loser and no one will love this fat ass.” Then what you get is either you figure out how to NOT be overweight anymore OR you don’t get a charming handsome man OR somehow the Universe slips that man in there for you but you resist him and screw everything up because you cannot receive what you want because you don’t believe you deserve it.

The solution to this is to somehow get yourself to realize that you are wonderful just as you are.

Why Aren’t You A Healthy And Beautiful Weight Right Now?

The Well-Being angle to the question asks you this: “why aren’t you a healthy and beautiful weight right now?” See, while the first question pointed at the potential that you really don’t love yourself, and thus don’t think you deserve what it is you really want (to be happy and to have the things you love being who you are right now… fat… skinny… nerdy… stupid… it could be anything really…) this point, the Well-Being point asks you what are you believing that let this situation occur and prevented the desired situation? So many women believe that staying beautiful is hard, it boggles the mind. It is actually as simple as believing that staying beautiful is natural and requires only that you be you.

Are You Ready To Change What You Believe About Weight?

If you want to lose weight, change what you believe about weight. CHOOSE to BE in your being a person who balanced weight comes natural too. Do not TRY and DO what you think you have to do to be healthy. TRYING and DOING may work for some time, but eventually the effort of doing something that goes against what you REALLY believe wears on you, you let it go and get overweight again. Or you get tired of having to DO all of these things just to stay a certain shape. Because trying is actually resistance. Life is naturally effortless. Trying does not feel good.

The great irony in this is that as you believe that you are NATURALLY beautiful, and possibly even take it a little further and advance the belief even deeper to: “I AM beautiful right now, and my body and soul are doing precisely what makes me most beautiful RIGHT NOW. I have always been beautiful, and now I am following my natural feel-good, and look I AM beautiful.” As you believe those things you will find you probably change habits naturally. But it is effortless.

Forget everything you think you know about why you are overweight. You are overweight because you accept it as a possible reality, or even a likely reality. All your life is a reflection of who you believe you ARE.

All the Best to You All!!
Alex

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Advanced Law of Attraction Concepts: Choosing and Being, not Trying and Doing

Tuesday, May 6th, 2008

Hello everyone :-)

This is my first advanced concepts blog. It is a portion of a long instant messenger conversation I had with zaphod90. He agreed that it would make a great blog. He asked me some questions about where he is at in his life and a really good conversation came out of it.

The main theme is: don’t TRY and DO, CHOOSE and BE. Law of Attraction is about choosing what you prefer, and being it. Yet I keep hearing people who are not really aware that their approach is just taking the doing that they used to do before knowing about Law of Attraction and replacing it with a new kind of doing, the kind where you have to make sure you do this and that process to keep your vibration up. This is also related to the All is Well concept which I will talk about in another blog in due time…)

I advocate the opposite. Choose what you you love, then be it.

This might be tough to comprehend, because it IS an advanced concept. It took about an hour for it to sink in for zaphod90! I encourage you to read through our conversation, and perhaps take your experience of Reality Creation to the next level of depth.

Please bear with the casualness of the conversation. After it gets going the concepts get very deep and rewarding.

All the Best,
Enjoy:

AlexBaranosky (2:59:28 PM): I said try it, so you can find out how it all works because me telling you stuff isn’t going to get it through to you, until you experiment with your life
zaphod90 (2:59:39 PM): ok
AlexBaranosky (3:00:43 PM): updated it
AlexBaranosky (3:00:50 PM): that HAS to be clear now

zaphod90 (3:00:58 PM): hahah
zaphod90 (3:01:04 PM): okay lets see
AlexBaranosky (3:01:06 PM): were you talking about yourself up there?
AlexBaranosky (3:01:08 PM): with the loans etc
AlexBaranosky (3:01:15 PM): or in general

zaphod90 (3:01:19 PM): yea, me
zaphod90 (3:01:20 PM): but
zaphod90 (3:01:25 PM): that was the one big resistance for me
zaphod90 (3:01:28 PM): when i started
zaphod90 (3:01:34 PM): at the moment i don’t feel real resistance
zaphod90 (3:01:43 PM): i have experienced enough channellings and talking to people to have complete faith
zaphod90 (3:01:46 PM): so that isn’t a problem anymore
zaphod90 (3:01:50 PM): i know my life will work out great
AlexBaranosky (3:01:51 PM): you are doing it *right* when you aren’t in dreamland, but you are dreamland
AlexBaranosky (3:02:15 PM): like when you think things they should start happening right away
AlexBaranosky (3:02:19 PM): or believe them
AlexBaranosky (3:02:32 PM): or consider them as new possibilities for you etc
AlexBaranosky (3:02:36 PM): like a few days later
AlexBaranosky (3:02:38 PM): or a day
AlexBaranosky (3:02:39 PM): or less
AlexBaranosky (3:02:49 PM): so it is real life
AlexBaranosky (3:02:54 PM): you see it happening all the time

zaphod90 (3:04:12 PM): i suppose at the moment im still… meh
zaphod90 (3:04:27 PM): my desire is to allow joy into my being
zaphod90 (3:05:02 PM): but my feelings fade every time lol. i realize that is why.. its that belief. but the fact I have tried what I know.. to believe and allow in otherwise, and i end up back to the feeling fading
zaphod90 (3:05:06 PM): im not sure if im doing it wrong
AlexBaranosky (3:05:09 PM): here you go my premium mentoring:
AlexBaranosky (3:05:12 PM): “There is so much I wish I could tell you………………….. yet… In your own time you will understand everything, so I will just let you discover for yourself. Through your own experience.”

zaphod90 (3:05:24 PM): thats sweet
AlexBaranosky (3:05:44 PM): think of yourself as a hot knife
AlexBaranosky (3:05:48 PM): and life like butter
AlexBaranosky (3:05:53 PM): a little flick here
AlexBaranosky (3:05:59 PM): a small swoosh there
AlexBaranosky (3:06:02 PM): with the knife
AlexBaranosky (3:06:09 PM): and life just morphs
AlexBaranosky (3:06:34 PM): perhaps I have thought that will help

zaphod90 (3:06:53 PM): its weird because its not so much negative thought i don’t think… its just literally like the good feeling fades simply because i get used to it. i can get myself to feel joy through appreciation.. but after an hour that becomes normal and it doesn’t do anything for me anymore
zaphod90 (3:06:57 PM): tis like i have absolutely NO leverage
zaphod90 (3:07:03 PM): so i dunno
zaphod90 (3:07:11 PM): at the moment i just accept where im at
AlexBaranosky (3:07:14 PM): have you read the tao te ching?
zaphod90 (3:07:18 PM): and i bought this awesome journal for appreciation
zaphod90 (3:07:20 PM): yeah I have
zaphod90 (3:07:25 PM): daoism?
AlexBaranosky (3:07:28 PM): are you intimately familiar with it?
zaphod90 (3:07:51 PM): thats daoism right
AlexBaranosky (3:07:54 PM): yeah
zaphod90 (3:07:59 PM): im mildly familiar
AlexBaranosky (3:08:21 PM): the central tenet of daoism is to …
AlexBaranosky (3:08:25 PM): Do Without Doing
AlexBaranosky (3:08:44 PM): Wu Wei, literally translates as Don’t Do
AlexBaranosky (3:08:47 PM): (i think)
AlexBaranosky (3:08:49 PM): hehe
AlexBaranosky (3:08:57 PM): apply that principle
AlexBaranosky (3:09:12 PM): imagine life is “Doing” while you sleep
AlexBaranosky (3:10:20 PM): life is Doing, you are Being
AlexBaranosky (3:10:29 PM): you there?

zaphod90 (3:10:31 PM): hm
zaphod90 (3:10:35 PM): im thinking
AlexBaranosky (3:10:39 PM): is that different from your current approach?
zaphod90 (3:10:44 PM): what do you mean by life is doing?
zaphod90 (3:10:55 PM): i guess when i just ‘am’
zaphod90 (3:11:09 PM): its kind of weird cause i think… isn’t that what everyone else is doing?
zaphod90 (3:11:15 PM): like if im just sitting
AlexBaranosky (3:11:18 PM): right
AlexBaranosky (3:11:22 PM): LoA is natural

zaphod90 (3:11:28 PM): well there def are so many people not in their joy
AlexBaranosky (3:11:31 PM): everyone is doing it
AlexBaranosky (3:11:34 PM): without doing anything
AlexBaranosky (3:11:43 PM): they are still doing LoA
AlexBaranosky (3:11:49 PM): just creating crapola :P
AlexBaranosky (3:11:55 PM): Being
AlexBaranosky (3:12:02 PM): that is your word for the week
AlexBaranosky (3:12:08 PM): I am giving you a magical word
AlexBaranosky (3:12:13 PM): I feel it is good for you
AlexBaranosky (3:12:18 PM): you take it or leave it
AlexBaranosky (3:12:27 PM): BEING

zaphod90 (3:12:31 PM): okay
zaphod90 (3:12:32 PM): being.
AlexBaranosky (3:12:37 PM): what is it you want?
AlexBaranosky (3:12:40 PM): don’t want
AlexBaranosky (3:12:42 PM): BE
AlexBaranosky (3:13:22 PM): I feel a strong good feeling from that word regarding you where you are at
AlexBaranosky (3:13:30 PM): Why?
AlexBaranosky (3:13:32 PM): dunno
AlexBaranosky (3:13:51 PM): probably cus all is well in every infinitesimally small and gargantuanly infinitely large bit

zaphod90 (3:14:01 PM): hm
AlexBaranosky (3:14:03 PM): and because nothing is ‘random’
AlexBaranosky (3:14:16 PM): any questions?

zaphod90 (3:15:13 PM): i guess just the same. i still feel on some level i don’t ‘get it’ while those at the next echelon of understanding get. the thing is i know the answer… but somehow its not working to apply it. and yet… i know the answer
zaphod90 (3:15:20 PM): its like a loop
zaphod90 (3:15:23 PM): that i know how to get out of
zaphod90 (3:15:29 PM): but when i do that
AlexBaranosky (3:15:31 PM): HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
zaphod90 (3:15:33 PM): i end up back in the loop
zaphod90 (3:15:35 PM): lol
AlexBaranosky (3:15:35 PM): the answer is BEING
AlexBaranosky (3:15:52 PM): in that paragraph you made me absolutely sure of it
AlexBaranosky (3:16:07 PM): anytime you feel the urge to DO something
AlexBaranosky (3:16:21 PM): you can still do it, if it feels totally 400% good

zaphod90 (3:16:37 PM): okay but.. i guess.. i dunno
AlexBaranosky (3:16:39 PM): but turn to yourself and BE what you love
zaphod90 (3:16:40 PM): take now for instance
AlexBaranosky (3:16:48 PM): hmmmmm searching for words here
zaphod90 (3:16:55 PM): here
zaphod90 (3:17:01 PM): tell me if i get this
AlexBaranosky (3:17:02 PM): I want to make sure you understand me because it is your WORD
AlexBaranosky (3:17:30 PM): here we go, let me use an example

zaphod90 (3:18:16 PM): im at my desk here…… typing on this computer…..while i have an eyelash in my eye, and it is watering… i drink some water and it flows down my throat. i blink, and smell some cookies that don’t necessarily smell good. i suppose i should just BE in this moment. i have created it.. and its an outward extension of me. So…… being.. I am here. I am… here. This is, in my mind.. how im trying to apply what i know. not necessarily ‘apply’ but just feel it
zaphod90 (3:18:20 PM): im being in this surrounding
zaphod90 (3:18:27 PM): but after several moments it just doesn’t latch
zaphod90 (3:18:32 PM): i have no feelings about it
zaphod90 (3:18:38 PM): nothing directly around me excites me
zaphod90 (3:18:41 PM): im just here
zaphod90 (3:18:45 PM): and i feel like theres so much more
zaphod90 (3:18:48 PM): that im not feeling… somehow
AlexBaranosky (3:19:20 PM): say “All is Well” take that concept, it is beautiful because there is nothing to Do, what is there to do, when all is well? Except be, or be feeling-good.
zaphod90 (3:19:22 PM): thats how if eel about 90% of the day
zaphod90 (3:19:27 PM): hm
AlexBaranosky (3:19:54 PM): from your feeling of things being “wrong” you are fucked
zaphod90 (3:19:57 PM): when al is well.. what is there to do
AlexBaranosky (3:20:25 PM): BE
AlexBaranosky (3:20:34 PM): take that word and really consider its implications
AlexBaranosky (3:20:49 PM): ask me whatever you want every day or two as you mull it over
AlexBaranosky (3:21:01 PM): because it is IT
AlexBaranosky (3:21:07 PM): the magic word
AlexBaranosky (3:21:26 PM): like here you go lemme example you:
AlexBaranosky (3:21:30 PM): say I was being you
AlexBaranosky (3:21:41 PM): well that doesn’t feel good hhahahaah

zaphod90 (3:21:41 PM): so when all is well, there is nothing to do but BE
AlexBaranosky (3:21:45 PM): lemme give an example though
zaphod90 (3:21:48 PM): lol
zaphod90 (3:21:54 PM): excellent
AlexBaranosky (3:21:56 PM): decide
AlexBaranosky (3:22:10 PM): for example, say I think I am joyful
AlexBaranosky (3:22:15 PM): a very joyful person
AlexBaranosky (3:22:21 PM): and some one says otherwise
AlexBaranosky (3:22:28 PM): or I feel a bit not joyful for sec
AlexBaranosky (3:22:37 PM): I would look right at that shit
AlexBaranosky (3:23:13 PM): laugh and say while BEING: I am a very joyful person, don’t you think? All is so well and man I feel good”
AlexBaranosky (3:23:17 PM): I would choose to BE
AlexBaranosky (3:23:27 PM): you are TRYING to DO
AlexBaranosky (3:23:30 PM): CHOOSE to BE

zaphod90 (3:23:40 PM): i know how joy feels.. its that i cant sustain it. i keep falling back into this same place of where i am at over and over….. like repetitively every day. its just become mundane. different approaches get me out a little.. and i just return. i guess that is what im saying… so based on what you say.. if i just BE, would float right out of that?
AlexBaranosky (3:24:04 PM): be what you want to be
AlexBaranosky (3:24:16 PM): right now you are being: “travis who has problems”

zaphod90 (3:24:22 PM): ohhhh
AlexBaranosky (3:24:28 PM): the universe reflects who you be
zaphod90 (3:24:33 PM): lollll
AlexBaranosky (3:24:38 PM): thats ebonics
zaphod90 (3:24:40 PM): i is
AlexBaranosky (3:24:58 PM): see, if I was in your situation I would perceive it differently
AlexBaranosky (3:25:03 PM): and thus the universe would morph
AlexBaranosky (3:25:11 PM): OOOOH here is some gold for you:
AlexBaranosky (3:25:16 PM): say you are feeling very good
AlexBaranosky (3:25:22 PM): like you have done before
AlexBaranosky (3:25:27 PM): and start to feel a dip
AlexBaranosky (3:25:41 PM): this is a crucial moment, where BELIEFS set in
AlexBaranosky (3:26:03 PM): you now can choose to believe that it is a teeny dip because for a sec you forgot that all is well, OR….
AlexBaranosky (3:26:24 PM): you can choose to see it as the continuation of a pattern that you have gotten stuck in and thus……….
AlexBaranosky (3:26:28 PM): THE INEVITABLE FALL

zaphod90 (3:26:33 PM): alright
AlexBaranosky (3:26:41 PM): depending how you approach that moment or few minutes
zaphod90 (3:26:41 PM): well i be travis who enjoys having fun
AlexBaranosky (3:26:51 PM): who is having fun
AlexBaranosky (3:26:54 PM): IS

zaphod90 (3:27:05 PM): ohhh
zaphod90 (3:27:07 PM): OHhhh
zaphod90 (3:27:09 PM): hahah ohhhhhhhhh
AlexBaranosky (3:27:23 PM): BELIEFS => be lives
AlexBaranosky (3:27:31 PM): close enough???
AlexBaranosky (3:27:33 PM):

zaphod90 (3:28:09 PM): and one final thing to solidify this
zaphod90 (3:28:38 PM): i can BE travis who has an abundance of wealth when his physical bank account is not because… what specifically?
AlexBaranosky (3:28:45 PM): YES!!!!
AlexBaranosky (3:28:47 PM): watch this
AlexBaranosky (3:29:01 PM): you can say I AM prosperous by nature
AlexBaranosky (3:29:44 PM): have you read my blog on health?
AlexBaranosky (3:29:47 PM): its the same concept
AlexBaranosky (3:29:59 PM): you don’t have a “bad” heart

zaphod90 (3:30:01 PM): im saying
AlexBaranosky (3:30:11 PM): you have a heart that is calling on you for precisely what it needs for thriviing
AlexBaranosky (3:30:35 PM): you don’t have “bad” finances; you have finances calling on your for precisely what they want to thrive
AlexBaranosky (3:30:39 PM): all is well

zaphod90 (3:30:42 PM): I can BE travis who has a healthy posture, even when his physical posture could say otherwise… i know this to be true. but how is this so, specifically.
AlexBaranosky (3:30:59 PM): by being it over and over eventually it IS
AlexBaranosky (3:31:08 PM): and you will see it morphing

zaphod90 (3:31:11 PM): okay so you just must be with the paradox
zaphod90 (3:31:14 PM): for a period of time
AlexBaranosky (3:31:21 PM): play pretend
zaphod90 (3:31:23 PM): and accept both realities at once
zaphod90 (3:31:26 PM): okay
AlexBaranosky (3:31:31 PM): until you are so good at playing pretend you realize it isnt pretend
AlexBaranosky (3:31:48 PM): basically see everything AS the better feeling reality
AlexBaranosky (3:31:55 PM): so don’t IGNORE things
AlexBaranosky (3:32:12 PM): but look right at them and say WOW that is great, because…… some reason relateded to who you BE NOW

zaphod90 (3:32:58 PM): what do you mean calling on you
zaphod90 (3:33:06 PM): if my posture is calling on me for all it needs to thrive
zaphod90 (3:33:08 PM): how does that relate to being
AlexBaranosky (3:33:19 PM): by just BEING travis
zaphod90 (3:33:19 PM): and BEING with good posture
AlexBaranosky (3:33:38 PM): by just being travis your every IMPULSE is in fact a calling from every part of yoru reality to what you BE
AlexBaranosky (3:34:01 PM): so WHY am I eating this 5 grain oatmeal stuff with nuts and raisins?

zaphod90 (3:34:01 PM): so what is the point of setting any desires at all then lol
AlexBaranosky (3:34:06 PM): because it is perfect
zaphod90 (3:34:16 PM): if you can just be in every moment
AlexBaranosky (3:34:22 PM): a mix of everything every facet of my reality is calling on for what I BE
AlexBaranosky (3:34:35 PM): because they are also an extension of you being
AlexBaranosky (3:34:43 PM): but desires not so much
AlexBaranosky (3:34:47 PM): just new ways of being

zaphod90 (3:34:51 PM): okay
zaphod90 (3:34:52 PM): man
zaphod90 (3:34:54 PM): this is a lot
zaphod90 (3:34:59 PM): im really trying to feel what you’re saying
AlexBaranosky (3:35:00 PM): yes
AlexBaranosky (3:35:07 PM): try BEING
AlexBaranosky (3:35:11 PM): also seeing how EVERYTHING is well

zaphod90 (3:35:13 PM): i can FEEL how being is amazing
AlexBaranosky (3:35:15 PM): EVERYTHING
zaphod90 (3:35:30 PM): parts of my mind are intruding… which is annoying but im going to continauuly choose being
zaphod90 (3:35:36 PM): and let them flow by
zaphod90 (3:35:39 PM): those thoughts
AlexBaranosky (3:36:00 PM): just build up a sick resume of experiences
zaphod90 (3:36:05 PM): okay
zaphod90 (3:36:08 PM): that is what i need
zaphod90 (3:36:14 PM): so now i can be….
AlexBaranosky (3:36:16 PM): I have a lot of stories to share
AlexBaranosky (3:36:21 PM): should be fun on my blog

zaphod90 (3:36:24 PM): i am being travis who is experiencing experiences
zaphod90 (3:36:30 PM): who IS experiencing experiences to build my resume
AlexBaranosky (3:36:36 PM): haha
AlexBaranosky (3:36:46 PM): see you were doing
AlexBaranosky (3:36:58 PM): you were like :”what can I do to achieve what I want?”

zaphod90 (3:37:06 PM): god
AlexBaranosky (3:37:07 PM): but the universe just responds to you
zaphod90 (3:37:13 PM): i thought in that moment
zaphod90 (3:37:16 PM): i chose to be what i wanted?
AlexBaranosky (3:37:26 PM): OF COURSE “YOU DO STU”FF, but it comes as a natural extension of who you BE
AlexBaranosky (3:37:48 PM): and I don’t really think much
AlexBaranosky (3:37:55 PM): I just do what feels best knowing it is

zaphod90 (3:37:59 PM): okay
AlexBaranosky (3:38:01 PM): because all is well
AlexBaranosky (3:38:13 PM): which means things that feel good are well

zaphod90 (3:38:26 PM): so you just said that if im sitting here.. and i choose to BE travis who experiences great things… how is that doing?
zaphod90 (3:38:30 PM): isn’t that choosing to BE?
AlexBaranosky (3:38:31 PM): basically trust every iota of your reality as already being Well
AlexBaranosky (3:38:50 PM): what I meant is I am not saying “Just Sit there all day”
AlexBaranosky (3:39:09 PM): this is good to remember:
AlexBaranosky (3:39:24 PM): don’t TRY and DO, but CHOOSE and BE
AlexBaranosky (3:39:39 PM): man I got so much good stuff

zaphod90 (3:39:41 PM): okay so
zaphod90 (3:40:00 PM): I choose in this moment to BE travis who IS receiving many great opportunities for a career in LA
zaphod90 (3:40:07 PM): so I just chose to be that version of travis
AlexBaranosky (3:40:18 PM): why not just Travis who is a professional in LA
zaphod90 (3:40:19 PM): i am that travis
zaphod90 (3:40:35 PM): ah
AlexBaranosky (3:40:43 PM): you’ll find that is the quickest way to think like travis who is a professional inLA
AlexBaranosky (3:41:00 PM): if you ARE someone, of course you THINk like them

zaphod90 (3:41:06 PM): I AM travis who is having a great amazing time in LA with abundance and prosperity
zaphod90 (3:41:18 PM): and I am travis with a great job there
AlexBaranosky (3:41:25 PM): could I somehow use this IM convo as a blog?
zaphod90 (3:41:29 PM): yeah
zaphod90 (3:41:33 PM): copy and paste
AlexBaranosky (3:41:38 PM): because it is deep
zaphod90 (3:41:43 PM): yeah
zaphod90 (3:41:47 PM): is this right sir?
zaphod90 (3:41:52 PM): i AM this version of travis
zaphod90 (3:41:54 PM): right now
zaphod90 (3:42:00 PM): even though im in a different state….
AlexBaranosky (3:42:10 PM): you on vacation Travis?
AlexBaranosky (3:42:17 PM): do you have family in Michigan?

zaphod90 (3:42:34 PM): ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
zaphod90 (3:42:35 PM): fuck
zaphod90 (3:42:36 PM): hahah
zaphod90 (3:42:43 PM): so the pretending game you keep playing..
AlexBaranosky (3:42:51 PM): I was hanging out in Hollywood and I called you up and you weren’t in town , so I left you this message on your phone”
AlexBaranosky (3:43:07 PM): but don’t pretend
AlexBaranosky (3:43:14 PM): there is a fine line between pretend and be
AlexBaranosky (3:43:18 PM): lean to the be side

zaphod90 (3:43:22 PM): what im asking is
zaphod90 (3:43:24 PM): when i BE
zaphod90 (3:43:27 PM): i BE travis
zaphod90 (3:43:30 PM): who is a professional in LA
zaphod90 (3:43:35 PM): now… when my physical eyes don’t see LA
AlexBaranosky (3:43:39 PM): right
zaphod90 (3:43:42 PM): what should i KNOW at that point
AlexBaranosky (3:43:42 PM): exactly
zaphod90 (3:43:47 PM): what should my mind see and realize…..
zaphod90 (3:43:52 PM): thats what im not getting
zaphod90 (3:43:55 PM): what ‘explains’ that
AlexBaranosky (3:43:56 PM): I have an exercise for you
zaphod90 (3:43:59 PM): discrepancy
AlexBaranosky (3:44:04 PM): there is none
zaphod90 (3:44:04 PM): can you explain that before this exercise
AlexBaranosky (3:44:11 PM): you must be on vacation to see some old college friends
zaphod90 (3:44:12 PM): i know there is no explanation
AlexBaranosky (3:44:22 PM): remember I said to not IGNORE things
zaphod90 (3:44:29 PM): oh
AlexBaranosky (3:44:33 PM): but look right at them and see them from who you BE
zaphod90 (3:44:41 PM): OHHHHH
AlexBaranosky (3:44:48 PM): BOOYA!
AlexBaranosky (3:45:00 PM): hahahahhaahahahahahahahahaahahahaa

zaphod90 (3:45:06 PM): So i Be professional travis in LA.. but professional travis from la wouldn’t being typing this question.. so im going back into the loop of who i was before?
zaphod90 (3:45:14 PM): rather
zaphod90 (3:45:18 PM): who i be
zaphod90 (3:45:34 PM): who i choose to be
zaphod90 (3:45:36 PM): might say
zaphod90 (3:45:37 PM): hey dude
AlexBaranosky (3:45:54 PM): now of course you can be a little in that travis and a little in the old travis
AlexBaranosky (3:46:02 PM): you might forget for a bit
AlexBaranosky (3:46:07 PM): but it is a process of
AlexBaranosky (3:46:10 PM): morphing

zaphod90 (3:46:23 PM): can you please re-go over what you meant about ignoring things
AlexBaranosky (3:46:26 PM): as you be that travis you will soon see that you ARE that travis
zaphod90 (3:46:28 PM): i really desire to hear more about that
zaphod90 (3:46:34 PM): if i AM travis professional
zaphod90 (3:46:41 PM): and i see a broken phone on my desk
zaphod90 (3:46:45 PM): what might i do… the process
AlexBaranosky (3:47:07 PM): look at everything, like normal, but being the LA Travis: then think whatever he would think
AlexBaranosky (3:47:31 PM): you are basically changing a belief about who you are
AlexBaranosky (3:47:37 PM): and then living from it
AlexBaranosky (3:47:39 PM): thinking from it
AlexBaranosky (3:47:41 PM): feeling from it
AlexBaranosky (3:47:42 PM): etc
AlexBaranosky (3:47:44 PM): being
AlexBaranosky (3:47:47 PM): !
AlexBaranosky (3:48:33 PM): it is pretend, but on a deeper level
AlexBaranosky (3:48:39 PM): it is exactly like pretending
AlexBaranosky (3:48:49 PM): except when you do it, you feel like it is real

zaphod90 (3:49:19 PM): hm
zaphod90 (3:49:28 PM): so i suppose that version of travis may be so far from what i know
zaphod90 (3:49:36 PM): im not sure i would know what travis in LA would think about a broken phone
zaphod90 (3:49:52 PM): makes me uncomfortable in a sense haha… i feel like..excitement and fear
zaphod90 (3:50:12 PM): because that version of travis is very great… with lots of experience and who can live through fear
AlexBaranosky (3:50:15 PM): would explain why you suck
zaphod90 (3:50:16 PM): quite easily
AlexBaranosky (3:50:17 PM):
zaphod90 (3:50:21 PM): hah
AlexBaranosky (3:50:28 PM): rofl
AlexBaranosky (3:50:47 PM): for some reason AIM wont let me save it
AlexBaranosky (3:50:57 PM): it is saying sorry cant save it

zaphod90 (3:50:58 PM): right click and hit copy
AlexBaranosky (3:51:04 PM): yeah
zaphod90 (3:51:04 PM): select all and hti copy
AlexBaranosky (3:51:09 PM): i will
zaphod90 (3:51:24 PM): So, am i being?
AlexBaranosky (3:51:33 PM): You have to admit I am very good at this
AlexBaranosky (3:51:49 PM): I feel I can change a lot of people’s lives
AlexBaranosky (3:52:00 PM): are you being?
AlexBaranosky (3:52:03 PM): what do you mean?

zaphod90 (3:52:09 PM): i feel this is the most helpful convo, of them
AlexBaranosky (3:52:09 PM): you are always being
AlexBaranosky (3:52:14 PM): but what are you being?
AlexBaranosky (3:52:33 PM): that’s because I am a professional, this is what I do
AlexBaranosky (3:52:39 PM): it is my passion

zaphod90 (3:53:10 PM): i am being travis who is enjoying this conversation… and the new phone on my desk just broke so i am being the travis with a great sparkling new phone
zaphod90 (3:53:28 PM): theres a tiny piece.. maybe i should reread
AlexBaranosky (3:53:32 PM): or if that is tricky, being the travis who is sure to get a new one soon
zaphod90 (3:53:44 PM): ohhhhh
AlexBaranosky (3:54:03 PM): basically it is whatever works for you
zaphod90 (3:54:25 PM): what are you being at this exact moment?
AlexBaranosky (3:54:43 PM): you don’t have to be always thinking about every detail, you could just see the phone and be like, “oh that’s my old phone, I have a really nice new one in the other room”
AlexBaranosky (3:54:54 PM): lots of things
AlexBaranosky (3:55:15 PM): I am being waiting for paula
AlexBaranosky (3:55:17 PM): lol
AlexBaranosky (3:55:18 PM): hahaha
AlexBaranosky (3:55:33 PM): if you see my post and see all the things I said “I am” about
AlexBaranosky (3:55:53 PM): anywhere I used the words, be or is or am
AlexBaranosky (3:55:58 PM): like All is Well
AlexBaranosky (3:56:04 PM): I am a professional at this
AlexBaranosky (3:56:26 PM): I am being my passion(s)
AlexBaranosky (3:56:39 PM): I am being me, vibing like WHOA, enjoying the cash flow
AlexBaranosky (3:56:52 PM): those are some of the things I am

zaphod90 (3:57:01 PM): and they just come into physical reality after a little bit of time?
AlexBaranosky (3:57:12 PM): morph is a good word
AlexBaranosky (3:57:44 PM): but yeah, the physical reality dream “shifts”
AlexBaranosky (3:58:04 PM): this can be my first blog in the “Advanced” section
AlexBaranosky (3:58:45 PM): I have a variety of sections I want to blog under. I haven’t yet posted under all of them

zaphod90 (3:58:51 PM): cool
AlexBaranosky (3:59:00 PM): one is “Global Implications”
AlexBaranosky (3:59:25 PM): no one posts about that
AlexBaranosky (3:59:28 PM): it should be fun
AlexBaranosky (3:59:50 PM): oh and “Science”
AlexBaranosky (4:00:00 PM): real science though, no fluff

zaphod90 (4:00:15 PM): cool
AlexBaranosky (4:00:59 PM): Paula is here so time to go
AlexBaranosky (4:01:04 PM): any last questions?

zaphod90 (4:01:07 PM): hm
zaphod90 (4:01:19 PM): i be travis who is enjoying the rest of the day
zaphod90 (4:01:21 PM): peace
AlexBaranosky (4:02:53 PM): your magic word is “BEING” it is a power word for you specifically
AlexBaranosky (4:02:57 PM): peace

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If I Was a Beginner Again

Tuesday, May 6th, 2008

If I Was a Beginner Again, What Would I Tell Myself?

That is the subject of this blog.

Looking back and seeing how far I have come that it is mind-boggling. Layer upon layer of myself has been unfolded and unfurled.

Have you ever heard about how you can read something once, and then go back and read it again 6 months later and find so much in there that you swear wasn’t in there the first time?

The Law of Attraction phase of my life has been like that. It just keeps getting deeper…

Ok. What would I tell myself if I could go back in time and tell myself 10 things on the very first day when I first read about Law of Attraction 7 years ago.

This is What I Would Say To Myself 7 Years Ago As A Beginner—

  1. You are about to delve into the biggest, and most mind-bogglingly fulfilling adventure you could ever imagine.
  2. Relax. This won’t hurt. Much! Hahahahahahaaha!
  3. Just let-go and be yourself Alex, things are so incredibly well.
  4. You think you want that and that and that. But what you really want is to feel good and to have self-worth.
  5. This is nothing new! Your life has been being formed by Law of Attraction all along.
  6. This is very new! You are about to experience very magical things. And see just how powerfully your mind orchestrates reality.
  7. All is Well — yes, right now, every iota. You’ll see in time, of course, how everything was always giving you exactly what you loved.
  8. Yes, everything in your reality is in fact happening because of your thoughts and beliefs. I know it sounds out there but hey: “what if it is true? You sure wouldn’t want to miss out, would you?”
  9. There is so much I wish I could tell you………………….. yet…
  10. In your own time you will understand everything, so I will just let you discover for yourself. Through your own experience.

Have Fun!
Alex

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Questions and Answers Series

Monday, May 5th, 2008

question mark drawn in clouds
I am starting up a Question and Answer series. Anyone who is interested in asking me questions for me to answer in my blog can send me a message by using this contact form.

Ask me questions about anything that interests you, whether it seems on topic or not. The questions that “seem” off-topic can often be the most fun to answer :-) I really love to receive questions about things my readers feel is truly important to them.

Just send me your first name, your email and your question. Be sure to mention that you are submitting a question for the Q & A series :)

Out of all the questions I receive I will pick some each week or two to answer.

Thanks for your participation!

All the Best,
Alex